In this video UK’s Leading dating coach for men Johnny Berba talks about how to be successful with women. Finding your own identity is vital if you want to attract quality women into your life. The big mistake most young men make when getting into the pick-up arts is not being them selves which only leads to more pain, rejection and a complete lack of congruency when communicating with women. I strongly believe that the identity of a so called pick-up artist can really miss lead most men down a path of misery and further frustration if they don’t work on the problem which is usually a lack of self belief along with past experience that have caused what’s known as limiting beliefs which can actually be solved through professional coaching or years of social practice.